How to Host a Virtual Baby Shower — and Save Money

Katie Sanders helped introduce her pals Hilary Lehman and Aaron Sharockman. She served because the officiant at their wedding ceremony. It was solely becoming that Sanders would throw a child bathe for the anticipating couple.

Back in early March, Sanders, who lives in St. Petersburg, Florida, was scoping out native breweries as venues for the occasion, but it surely quickly grew to become obvious she’d have to change these plans as a consequence of coronavirus issues.

So she pivoted and began planning a digital child bathe over Zoom — full with trivia, updates from the couple and a sneak peak of the nursery. Local company participated in a drive-by parade to ship the couple nicely needs earlier than the occasion began on-line.

“People stated they actually had a good time,” Sanders stated. “I used to be actually happy with how pleased it made individuals really feel. [My friends] felt so beloved on the finish of the day.”

Although states are reopening after COVID-19 shutdowns, throwing a digital child bathe as a substitute of an in-person occasion remains to be best for a lot of expectant couples. It cuts down the concern over contracting the virus whereas pregnant and permits family members from afar — who might not be capable to journey — to rejoice the brand new child.

Plus, internet hosting a digital occasion comes with vital price financial savings. A standard child bathe might price a pair hundred for a casual operate at dwelling or over a thousand bucks for a elaborate bathe at a rented venue with catering. 

Sanders stated she was in a position to save considerably by not needing to e book a venue, pay for meals, mail invites and purchase a bunch of occasion favors and decor. It’s even attainable to throw a digital child bathe with out spending any cash in any respect.

If you’ve obtained a child on the way in which or are in command of planning a celebration for a member of the family or buddy, comply with these steps to host an affordable digital child bathe.

1. Select a Date and Time

Even although your company gained’t be bodily travelling to attend your digital child bathe, it’s nonetheless necessary to provide ample discover. Think about dates which are a minimum of two weeks out. Keep in thoughts that some company could also be sending presents for the child and will encounter delivery delays.

Block off not more than an hour or two for the celebration. Throwing a digital child bathe will in all probability take up much less time than an in-person occasion. Be thoughtful about time in the event you’ll have company becoming a member of the occasion from totally different elements of the nation. You don’t need the occasion to begin too early, too late or proper in the course of supper time.

2. Choose a “Venue” 

And by venue, we imply which video conferencing platform you’ll use to host your child bathe. 

You may already be used to totally different choices in the event you’ve been working remotely or utilizing video apps to remain in contact with family and friends, however you’ll need to think about the wants of your occasion and the tech savvy of your company.

Are you internet hosting a bunch of pals who like to mess around with enjoyable digital camera filters? Are you inviting family who don’t need to be bothered with downloading an app or signing up for some new account? Are you retaining the child bathe small or inviting, say, everybody who attended the couple’s wedding ceremony? 

Recruit a pair pals that will help you check issues out in the event you’re not sure which service you need to use. Here are a number of fashionable platforms which are free or have free variations:


Zoom’s free account means that you can embody as much as 100 contributors on a video name with a 40-minute time restrict. Your child bathe company don’t must have Zoom accounts to hitch the occasion — only a hyperlink to the scheduled occasion. Some fashionable Zoom options embody display screen sharing, group chat, using digital backgrounds and having a gallery view that may present 25 individuals on the display screen directly. 

Sanders used Zoom’s polling operate to have individuals guess when the child could be born and the breakout room operate to let company chat in smaller teams whereas taking part in a trivia sport. The parents-to-be have been in a position to leap out and in of the totally different breakout rooms to speak with company in a extra intimate setting.

Facebook Messenger Rooms

Facebook’s new Messenger Rooms platform allows you to invite as much as 50 individuals to your digital child bathe. You may even invite the grandparents who might not have a Facebook account — you don’t want one to hitch the occasion.

With Facebook Messenger Rooms, you don’t have to stay to a strict time-frame in your celebration, as a result of there aren’t any closing dates for conferences. Features of this platform embody enjoyable digital camera filters, 360-degree digital backgrounds, temper lighting and extra.

Google Meet

Google’s on-line assembly platform allows you to embody as much as 100 individuals on a video name for as much as an hour. Through Sept. 30, 2020, Google Meet is extending premium options to all customers so you may meet with 150 individuals for as much as 24 hours for free of charge.

Participants will want a gmail account, however signing up for one is free. For digital child showers with small visitor lists, Google has different choices. Google Duo permits as much as 12 contributors on a video name.


Celebrate utilizing Group FaceTime with as much as 32 family members. You’ll simply have to verify all of the individuals in your visitor record have an iPhone, iPad or Mac with an up to date working system.

Have enjoyable utilizing particular filters, Animojis or Memojis throughout the video name. There are not any closing dates for calls.


Skype’s group video calling characteristic allows you to meet with as much as 50 individuals directly. This service from Microsoft permits anybody to hitch free of charge. Special options embody display screen sharing and background blur.

three. Come Up With a Theme

Katie Sanders threw a digital child bathe for her two pals, Hilary Lehman and Aaron Sharockman. Photo courtesy of Aaron Sharockman

Many in-person child showers have a theme — which doesn’t need to be misplaced with a digital occasion.

Your theme might mirror the decor of the child’s nursery or the pursuits of the parents-to-be. You might merely middle your theme round a colour palette. Check Pinterest for concepts and inspiration.

Deciding on a theme will assist you choose a design in your invitations, thanks notes or a customized background for the video name. Get your company concerned by asking them to put on one thing aligned with the theme — sun shades for a seashore theme or their favourite crew jerseys for a sports activities theme. Another approach you may incorporate your theme is by sharing a associated recipe — like your Aunt Mary’s well-known crab dip for a nautical-themed bathe.

four. Have the Parents Create a Gift Registry

Or create one your self in the event you’re organizing the bathe to rejoice your individual bundle of pleasure.

No one even has to set foot in a retailer. Retailers like Buy Buy Baby, Target and Walmart allow you to create reward registries on-line. Or you may create your registry on Amazon or Babylist, including merchandise from all around the net.

When making a child bathe registry, it’s good to incorporate a spread of things at totally different worth factors. If your registry of alternative has a gaggle giving characteristic, you don’t need to shrink back from  including higher-end child gear to your record. Group giving permits a number of family members to separate the price of large presents like a stroller set or crib.

5. Send Invitations Online

The child bathe goes to be held on-line, so it makes excellent sense to ship invitations over the web.

Your invites ought to clearly point out that the child bathe can be a digital one. Include a hyperlink to the occasion when you've got one. If not, let company know that you simply’ll comply with up with details about the right way to be part of the video name on the day of the child bathe. Sharing ideas or greatest practices on the right way to use the video conferencing platform you’ve chosen might be useful.

Including an RSVP request on the invite isn’t as important as in the event you have been throwing an in-person celebration, however it may be helpful to know the way many individuals are coming, particularly as you’re planning actions to do all through the occasion.

Save cash on extra than simply stationery and stamps by looking for free invites on-line. Sites like Evite, Paperless Post and Canva present good choices to select from.

6. Come up With a Schedule of Things to Do

You can’t recreate the entire mingle-and-small-talk facet of a conventional child bathe at a digital occasion. It’s higher to implement some construction to the celebration so that you don’t have company speaking over one another or awkwardly staring in silence.

Once the vast majority of company have joined the video name and launched themselves, share what you've got deliberate in your time collectively and run down some basic housekeeping guidelines (like retaining your self muted once you’re not talking). You can also need to document the occasion, if attainable, for the parents-to-be to rewatch later. In that case, it's best to give company a heads up.

To begin issues off, have the anticipating dad and mom give an replace about how issues are going with the being pregnant and the child earlier than leaping into occasion video games. Sanders suggests having the grandparents or older siblings present some remarks too.

As for the leisure, there are many child bathe video games you may play just about. Here are a number of concepts:

Trivia: Have company reply questions concerning the parents-to-be once they have been younger or guess the mother’s largest being pregnant craving.
Poll: Ask individuals to guess the circumference of mother’s child stomach or place predictions on when the child can be born and what the delivery weight can be.
The Price is Right: Have family members guess the price of varied child gadgets.
Baby bingo: Have company use a bingo card generator (like this one) utilizing a pre-selected record of baby-related phrases, or create customized bingo playing cards to ship to every visitor forward of time.
Name that tune: Create a playlist of songs with the phrase “child” within the title. Play the primary few seconds of every observe, and see who can give you the title of the music and the artist. Or preserve taking part in the music till somebody blurts out the reply.
Guess the quantity: Get an empty vessel — like an toddler bathtub or an outsized child bottle piggy financial institution — and fill it up with jelly beans or marshmallows. Have individuals guess what number of there are.
Who’s that child: Ask company to e mail you child photographs of themselves and present them on display screen throughout the child bathe, one after the other. Have company write down who they suppose every child is and share their solutions.

E-gift playing cards could make nice prizes for whoever wins the child bathe video games.

Another factor you are able to do throughout the child bathe is to have company share their nicely needs. You can present prompts, like “recommendation for the brand new dad and mom” or “what you need the child to know.” In lieu of getting everybody share throughout the occasion, have them signal a digital visitor e book or document their sentiments upfront.

If sufficient company are native, you may ask them to hitch up and drive by the dad and mom home with indicators and balloons to point out their love.

Toward the top, you will have the mom-to-be open presents on digital camera. Some company might depart as soon as gift-opening begins; others will take pleasure in seeing their very own reward opened. Like in-person occasions, some dad and mom may need to wait till company depart to unwrap presents.

7. Send Thank You Notes 

After the child bathe is over, use the identical service you used for invites to ship out your thanks playing cards. By selecting e-cards, you’ll save on the extra price of printed playing cards and postage. If the child has arrived, you may select to ship out delivery bulletins on-line, too.

Hosting a digital child bathe provides you the right excuse to keep away from shopping for occasion favors, however you would decide into sending small tokens of appreciation to your company — like e-gift playing cards to Starbucks or Dunkin’ Donuts. If native pals can be driving previous in a child bathe parade, you would arrange a desk on the entrance garden with small trinkets or individually wrapped baked items.

Nicole Dow is a senior author at The Penny Hoarder.

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